Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Monday, April 26, 2010

When you go out to eat

Here are some DO's and DONT's to remember the next time you dine out:

DO:
*Tip at least 20% for good service
*Refer to your server by their name
*Respond to questions your servers asks
*Take more time to look at the menu before saying you are ready to order (refer to #6 on dont's)


DON'T:
*Ask for the check if you really aren't ready for it
*Talk on your cell phone and expect your server to acknowledge you
*Request something from your server while he/she is at another table
*Ask 4 different ppl for the same thing and then get mad when they all bring it you?
*If you are unhappy with your meal, and you want a free one...DONT eat all of it and then complain
*Say you are ready to order....then converse with your family about what you should get, what they should get and whether or not to share...if you are not READY, then dont say so

(to be continued)

Where I am.....Where I wanna Be

Do you love your life? I love mine....but i could love it a little more. I dont want to sound like a spoiled brat, but I have always had goals in my life. When i was a young girl, i knew exactly what I wanted. To bad it didnt always work out that way. Is 26 old? Some people say yes (those peeople are under 26) lol

Although I am past due on my "goals" I set as a young girl, I know now that I would not be the woman I am now, without the chance to experience life. Whether it be good or bad. Holding off on marriage when I thought I was too young...holding off on children with man who was abusive....they have made me stronger.

I now know what to expect from life. I now know what I deserve from life. I now know how to make those things happen for myself.

So, somebody asked me if I am happy where i am now. My answer is yes. I have been independant since high school graduation, I moved 300 miles from my family to attend and graduate from Temple University, I have a great apartment, a car that runs, a job that I love and am currently advancing in. And to top off all of that, I have a man whom I adore and I know adores me.

For the longest time all I could think about was "getting the ring." So much so, that I was chasing it. It is at this moment while writing this blog, I feel like the ring will come to me. It is today that I feel like my life is falling into place. And it didnt happen when I wanted it to. It is happening as God has pre planned it to.

Thank you for allowing me to step back and relax and let life happen to me! I love it....and it only gets better from here!

Goodnite

My Virgin Blog

So, this is my first blog ever. Cant sleep so i decided to write. I always wanted to write down what i was feeling, but never really had the time. I think this could become a great way for me to unwind from my day just before bed. So m bare with me folks...but hang on...you could be in for a wild ride! LOL...but not too wild...My bosses might be reading this!